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Subtitle: Surviving and Thriving with the Self-Absorbed Recommended to me by: Focusing-discussion list The person recommending this book spoke of narcissistic wounds rather than narcissistic people. I think it’s useful to have compassion, and at the same time it is easy to lose sight of the people hurt by narcissistic behavior. The author is […] Subtitle: What Your Feelings are Trying to Tell You. Recommended to me by: a client I read a couple of books lately that had their good points, but I only got half way through them, and when I started to post about them I had more negative thoughts than positive ones, so I deleted […] Subtitle: Hidden Wounds and Human Resiliency This book is a frustrating mix of interesting theories, solid information, and bigoted rants. The author leads with some encouraging words about intersectionality and noticing how society’s defaults harm some people, but then devolves into “women returning to work after childbirth causes harm because babies need maternal care” […] Subtitle: Sexual Abuse, The Child’s Voice Madge Bray shares her journey as a child advocate social worker, along with several abused children’s case histories. Woven through the book is the history of recognition and backlash around the sexual abuse of children. Madge Bray pioneered the use of toys and play therapy to elicit children’s […] This is a book of 18 poems and 13 paintings about Ani Rose Whaleswan’s healing from extreme abuse. From the back cover: “She believes too that art is healing, and healing is an art.” The paintings are colorful, vivid, powerful. Each one is accompanied by a paragraph of background or interpretation. The poems are concrete, […] Recommended to me by: Meloukhia This is a fairy tale, but no child’s story. It starts with incest and pregnancy and abortion, and continues with gang rape. Then Liga is magically placed in a world that matches her heart’s desire, peaceful and safe. While examining the consequences of assault and the consequences of avoiding […] Subtitle: Divided Consciousness and the Promise of Awareness; Tales of Multiple Personality in Everyday Life Recommended to me by: a client This book contains a therapist’s compassionate, engaging views on people who have Dissociative Identity Disorder (previously known as Multiple Personality Disorder) and how they can heal. Martha Stout discusses both specific cases and […] Subtitle: And Other Tales for Childhood’s Survivors This is an anthology of fairy tales retold for adults, with the scary bits left in, and also the bits about resilience and survival. Yes, her father cut off her arms, but then the armless maiden rescues herself and her child through quick wits as well as […] CROWHEART: becoming unwounded, a memoir of transformation Recommended to me by: Keelin Anderson To tell her story of healing from incest and emotional abuse, Keelin Anderson weaves together daily narrative, fiction, quotes, tarot readings, and dreams, all in present tense. As I read, I saw places where our paths have overlapped, and places where […] Subtitle: How I Lost the Mormons and Found My Faith Recommended to me by: Reading Martha Beck’s older books I first read this years ago and loved it. I came back to it while writing a (forthcoming) article about spiritual abuse and faith. Since I last read it, I read her newer book “Steering […] |