Subtitle: And Other Tales for Childhood’s Survivors
This is an anthology of fairy tales retold for adults, with the scary bits left in, and also the bits about resilience and survival. Yes, her father cut off her arms, but then the armless maiden rescues herself and her child through quick wits as well as magic.
The stories vary [...]
Subtitle: Strengthening Intimacy in Families
I read this by coincidence, and it fits perfectly with themes I’ve been thinking about lately. Kathy Weingarten, a family therapist, addresses double binds that society creates for women around acceptable roles and definitions of success. She talks about dominating behaviors in men and how to address them. She [...]
Subtitle: The Road from Estrangement to Reconciliation
Recommended by: Laura Davis’s website
Laura Davis is co-author of the classic book about healing from incest, “The Courage to Heal.”
This book is written with compassionate awareness that not all stories have happy endings and not all estrangements can be reconciled. Nevertheless, I cried while reading it, for all the [...]
Subtitle: Childhood and Other Misadventures in Bulgaria
Recommended by: Ceil Wirth on the EEFC mailing list
Kapka Kassabova’s chilling, yet engaging, personal memoir of growing up in communist Bulgaria, and then returning to visit shortly after Bulgaria joined the European Union. The characters are finely drawn, and each chapter covers a different aspect (home, school, summers) in [...]
CROWHEART: becoming unwounded, a memoir of transformation
Recommended by: Keelin Anderson
To tell her story of healing from incest and emotional abuse, Keelin Anderson weaves together daily narrative, fiction, quotes, tarot readings, and dreams, all in present tense.
As I read, I saw places where our paths have overlapped, and places where they have diverged. We have both struggled [...]
Subtitle: How I Lost the Mormons and Found My Faith
Recommended by: Reading Martha Beck’s older books
I first read this years ago and loved it. I came back to it while writing a (forthcoming) article about spiritual abuse and faith. Since I last read it, I read her newer book “Steering by Starlight” and saw [...]
Subtitle: Some thoughts on faith
I stumbled across this book while looking for a quote about forgiveness. I usually find Anne Lamott’s books laugh-out-loud funny, reassuringly insightful, or disturbingly insightful. This book, a series of autobiographical essays about faith and religion, left me cold.
Maybe it was the large daily consumption of alcohol and other drugs [...]
Recommended by: rushthatspeaks
This is Margaux Fragoso’s matter-of-fact memoir of growing up in Union City, New Jersey with an angry father who is a jeweler, a mentally ill mother who is often hospitalized, and a very complicated relationship with a pedophile, Peter.
I skipped whole chapters in the middle of this book, unable to read the detailed, oily [...]
Subtitle: A transsexual woman on sexism and the scapegoating of femininity
An illuminating book. Julia Serano describes her own experience as a transsexual woman, including the identities she explored before deciding to transition, and the internal and external changes she noticed during transition. She uses her experiences, carefully supported with research, to call out some [...]
Recommended by: veleda_k in 50books_poc
A series of impressions of the legends, history, and personal experiences of the Kiowas, a Native American tribe living in Oklahoma. Scott Momaday’s grandmother Aho attended the last full Sun Dance of the Kiowas as a child, and shared stories and traditions with him as he grew.
Each image is bright, clear, [...]
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